Public speaking... etc

People have listed public speaking as more frightening than death. This does not have to be frightening at all. It can be turned into something that is very enjoyable.

It is important to deal first of all with the fear of standing up in front of people. Then it is important to deal with the beliefs that are not real. This makes it possible to then install programs that will support the individual in any circumstances, even spontaneous occasions.

By then going through the presentation, it is possible to improve on the presentation skills. Improving on the presentation comes as a result of familiarising the person to feel comfortable. Sometimes it is just simply changing the breathing techniques that will make the difference. One man was so fearful that he couldn’t speak his name without stuttering. This was easily changed and made a huge difference to his life.

During the practice of the presentation, the person is programmed to feel very comfortable and anticipates a great outcome. One of my clients rang me after a presentation. He was very excited and grateful, as the audience gave him a standing ovation. Prior to our sessions, he had thought his presentation was boring and he was very uncomfortable. After working through the presentation, he realised that he had a lot to offer and felt very comfortable.

Another person was told that she would lose her job if she avoided a particular presentation, as she had managed to avoid doing so many times. She was very comfortable working with a large number of staff and a sales budget of $9 million, but only wanted to work with them on a one to one basis. We first changed her beliefs that she couldn’t do a good presentation and also the thought of getting up in front of an audience was changed. Then she felt so comfortable and was able to come up with great ideas for the presentation which were very original. By running through the presentation, it was possible to eliminate the stiffness and uncertainty. The presentation turned into an impressive one with a great outcome.

A partner of a large firm had to welcome clients and give a presentation at a function for important clients. By changing beliefs about himself and running through the presentation, it was possible to achieve the desired outcome easily.

Whether it is speaking at a wedding, presenting on stage, or in the board room, it is dealing with self confidence and feeling comfortable that makes all the difference.